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you know that the moment:you spot someone across a crowded room,bus,or produce section.you'd love to meet-but what the heck can you say to a complete stranger that won't come off as dorky or desperate?Try one of these real-world icebreakers that single swear by.why?because these lines earned them plenty of dates!
FLIRT with a fly-by
"my best icebreaking technique is what i call the 'fly-by'.it's where you make
with comment of a releven nature as you walk by the person who interests you.
for example,this one time i saw a guy in the glocery store who was really
attractive.so,as i passed him in the cereal aislei said,'Buy the Frosted Flakes
- sure,it's all sugar,but everyone needs to eat like a kid now and then.'Later,
when i saw him again in a different aisle,i said,we have to stop meeting like
this!'and finally,when we were near each other in the checkout line,i said,'care
to chill out over coffee after all this decision-making?'he accepted!"
-elizabeth flanagan,chicago,lL...
TRY the direct approached
"i have approached people in glocery stores,on the street,pretty much
anywhere,and the best conversation starter i've found is just to say what i'm
thinking.i'll say something like,'Hi,my name is josh,and i just wanted to let you
know i find you incredibly attractive.'Everyone on this planet likes to be found
attractive.and even if they don't want to date you,most people will graciously
accept your compliment."
-josh prince,new york
Take A survey
"sometimes i pretend i'm doing a survey for research purposes.people just assume it's for school or work project.my best 'survey' approach is to ask guys
to tell me what they think the ratio in this particular spot is of those who are out to
actually meet someone to date versus those who are just out to have a good time
with their friends.it allows you to go up to anyone and just start talking.....both
men and women!and you don't have to worry about coming across as hitting on
anyone.it's all in the name of research!"
Play some GAMES
"my friends and i like to play the typical old-school games while we're out-pool,
darts,football,etc.-and you can use these games as an axcuse to talk to
whatever cutie you've been eyeing.for example,i walk up to a person i find
attractive and say something like,'hey,my friends and i are playing doubles at
the pool table,but my partner left.Do you mind helping me out?' it takes a lot of
pressure off meeting someone because you're both being active,which leads to
a more natural conversation starter,like:'i can't believe you made that shot!Do
you play a lot?' versus sitting at a table trying to force witty banner.I actually met
two guys with this little trick."
-shannon hamilton.
Lay on the flattery
"one of the best ways to meet men is to pay them a compliment.not just by
saying 'nice tie' or whatever,but something really flattering.for example,one
tiem on the way to the ladies room at a restaurant where i was having dinner
alone,i noticed a very well-dressed man.on the way back i stopped at his table
and said, 'you are simply the best-dressed man i have seen in a very long time'
and then proceeded on to my table.within about five minutes,he came to my
table and asked if he could join me for dessert.my answer was yes."
-gloria starr.
Ask a question
"if i'm going to try to chat someone up,i make sure that my opening line invites a
conversation.so if i see a women picking up some curry sauce at trader joe's,
i'll say,'excuse me,i've always seen that sauce and wondered about it.how can
you use it?is it very spicy?'or,if i'm at a music store,i'll ask a woman in the
classical section something like,excuse me,i'm just getting into classical music.
can you recommend something?'in my experience,these kinds of questions
really get you and the other person talking about your shared interests-which
is a great way to bond."
-HEnry bloomberg
A little humor and humility can't hurt
" i like to use what i call the 'no-line' pick-up line.i mosey over and say something
innocent,like:"Excuse me for interrupting; i can you're buzy reading
(studying,working,whatever).you caught my attention,so i thought i would risk
public humiliation by introducing myself.' my theory is that it doesn't really matter
much what you say.if she's keen,she'll pick up the ball and respond in kind."
-william sukala,san diego
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